Human Direction — Think first.
What are we trying to learn? What do we already think? What help would actually be useful?
The Middle Principle / For parents & carers
Build the thinking skills your child needs in an AI world.
Schools are working out how AI fits into learning. At home, you can start building the habits that matter: asking better questions, checking answers and knowing when to think for yourself.
Free resources. No account needed. Plenty to try without an AI tool.
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Ask tonight: “If an AI gives you an answer, how would you decide whether to trust it?”
Follow-up: “What would you check? Who could help? What would make you change your mind?”
You can have this conversation without a device. Listening to their reasoning is the activity.
The Middle Principle at home
What are we trying to learn? What do we already think? What help would actually be useful?
An adult may use an appropriate tool to offer examples, questions or alternatives. An offline activity can practise the same habit.
Check the result, explain your choice and take responsibility for what you use.
The child should be able to explain the learning, not just show the output.
Activities
Choose one. Ten minutes is enough to start a conversation.
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No AI tool needed · Paper and a suitable book or an adult-selected reliable reference
Parent says: Two of these sound convincing. How could we find out what's true?
Goal: Name a way of checking a claim beyond whether it sounds convincing.
Read three adult-written practice claims: “All birds can fly”; “A triangle has three sides”; “The Moon makes its own light.” Label these as a practice set written for this activity, not genuine AI output. The child gives an initial view and a reason.
Discuss how an AI might help suggest questions, while using a reference book or trusted source to check each claim. No tool is required. First claim is false, second true, third false; the Moon reflects sunlight. Older children should check context and look for independently reliable evidence, rather than counting repeated search results.
The child chooses one claim and explains the evidence that settled it. Ask: “Would confidence alone have been enough?”
Listen for whether the child distinguishes a claim from evidence and can revise an initial answer.
The entire lesson works with a book.
For older children: explain why two websites copying the same claim are not two independent checks.
No device · Paper, pencils or building bricks
Parent says: Draw a house. Compare drawings without calling either wrong.
Goal: Identify one missing detail and improve an instruction.
The child describes the house they meant and chooses three details that matter.
The parent acts as a literal instruction follower and draws from the improved description. Explain that this is a simple analogy for giving directions, not a model of how all AI works. Repeat with bricks if preferred.
The child compares the result with the intention, identifies a mismatch and revises one sentence.
Listen for clearer purpose, constraints and useful detail rather than simply more words.
This is the default version of the lesson.
Add a constraint such as using only five bricks.
No AI tool needed · The supplied practice text (paper or screen)
Parent says: Here is an adult-written example, not an AI answer: “The new playground is perfect. It has a tall climbing tower, loud music and a fast spinning roundabout. Everyone will love it.”
Goal: Explain how an account can leave out an important viewpoint.
Define what would make a playground welcoming to different people.
Use the practice text as material to examine; optionally an adult can prepare another short example. Ask whose experience is missing: wheelchair users, children who prefer quiet, younger children, carers. Do not present these as assumptions about every person in a group.
Rewrite two sentences to include needs the original overlooked. The child explains why the changes matter.
Listen for identifying assumptions without stereotyping people.
Use only the supplied text.
I am an adult preparing a family activity. Write one short fictional description of a public place that sounds positive but leaves out some people's needs. Do not use real names or a real school.
Compare two plausible designs and discuss a trade-off.
Optional adult-only preparation · Paper, and counters or a drawing if helpful
Parent says: Four notebooks cost £12 in total. Each costs the same. How much does one cost? (Parent answer: £3.)
Goal: Solve and explain a problem after receiving a limited hint.
The child attempts the problem and explains where they are stuck.
Offer only this first hint: “How could you share £12 equally between four notebooks?” Offer a drawing or four piles of counters if helpful. An optional adult preparation prompt may request one hint, not a solution. Actual AI output must be checked by the adult before use.
The child explains the method, then solves a transfer problem: “Five identical pens cost £20. How much is one?” Parent answer: £4. For older children, use a suitable problem already understood by the adult and permitted by school homework rules.
Listen for an independent explanation, not a repeated answer.
Use the supplied hint. No tool is required.
I am an adult preparing a learning activity. For the fictional problem below, suggest one small hint that supports the learner's next step. Do not solve it or provide the final answer. Problem: four identical notebooks cost £12. What does one cost?
The child writes a similar question and checks the solution.
No device · Fictional slips: a made-up dragon story; a pretend home address; a friend's photo; a password; a made-up shopping list; a school report. Use obviously fictional details; never bring real sensitive documents into the exercise.
Parent says: Who is this information about, and who has agreed to share it?
Goal: Recognise information that should not be pasted into a public tool.
Ask who information is about and who has agreed to share it.
Sort into “safe fictional material for this activity”, “keep private” and “ask a trusted adult first”. Explain that tool rules and privacy settings also matter; removing a name does not necessarily make a document anonymous.
The child explains two decisions and rewrites one example as a genuinely fictional scenario. A friend's image, passwords and real reports stay out of public prompts.
Listen for privacy and permission, not just spotting a name.
This is the default version of the lesson.
Identify details that could identify someone when combined.
Optional adult-only idea generation · Paper or a spoken story
Parent says: Invent a character and choose one problem for a short original story.
Goal: Explain a creative choice and a deliberate improvement.
The child invents a character and chooses one problem for a short original story.
Offer three adult-written starter options: “A map changes whenever someone tells a lie”; “A tiny robot is afraid of the dark”; “A dragon opens a repair shop.” Label them as written examples. The child may combine, reject or change them. Where appropriate, an adult could prepare alternative ideas with a permitted tool, but the tool should not write the child's story.
The child creates a short paragraph, comic or spoken story; changes one detail intentionally; explains what makes it theirs. Discuss honestly acknowledging help when school rules require it.
Listen for intentional choices rather than a claim that changing a few words automatically makes copied work original.
Use the supplied options.
Suggest three one-sentence starting situations for an original children's story about a lost object. Make them clearly different. Do not write the story, ending or characters' dialogue.
Retell the same event from another character's viewpoint.
Example prompts
These examples are for adults preparing or supervising appropriate activities. Check a service's current terms, age limits and suitability first. The younger age labels describe the learning activity, not permission for a child to use a chatbot.
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Starting request: Give me the answer.
Learning purpose: Keep thinking with the child while still offering a useful next step.
I am an adult preparing a learning activity. For the fictional problem below, suggest one small hint that supports the learner's next step. Do not solve it or provide the final answer. Problem: four identical notebooks cost £12. What does one cost?
The child tries first.
An adult checks that the hint is suitable, then asks the child to solve and explain a new example unaided.
Use Lesson 4, “A clue, not the answer”, and the supplied hint only.
Starting request: Explain the water cycle.
Learning purpose: Prepare a short explanation an adult can check before using it.
I am an adult preparing a short activity for an 8-year-old. Explain evaporation and condensation in under 100 words using an everyday example. Then give me two questions I can ask to check understanding, with the answers in a separate parent section. Flag any simplifications.
Agree what the child already knows and adapt the reading level.
The adult verifies the explanation in a suitable reference; the child explains it without reading the answer.
Read a short explanation from a suitable children's science book, then ask the child to explain it back.
Starting request: Tell me why my idea is good.
Learning purpose: Practise holding more than one view before deciding.
I am an adult preparing a family discussion. For this fictional proposal, give one reasonable argument in favour and one reasonable concern, each under 50 words: our imaginary park should close at sunset. Identify who else we should hear from before deciding. Do not assume there is only one correct policy.
The child gives their own view.
Distinguish opinions from claims that need checking; the child decides what evidence would change their mind.
Use dinner card 03, “Who is missing?”, and the fictional playground in Lesson 3.
Starting request: Write my story.
Learning purpose: Use help for options, not for the finished work.
Suggest three one-sentence starting situations for an original children's story about a lost object. Make them clearly different. Do not write the story, ending or characters' dialogue. I will use these as optional ideas in an adult-led activity.
The child chooses a theme.
The child rejects or changes an option and makes their own story; discuss credit for any help.
Use the three adult-written starters in Lesson 6, “Make it yours”.
Starting request: Is this true?
Learning purpose: Practise investigation questions rather than accepting a fluent claim.
For this fictional practice claim, list the questions a person should investigate and the kinds of reliable sources they could consult: all reusable bottles are better for the environment in every situation. Do not invent statistics, references or links. Separate assumptions from evidence we would need.
The child notes uncertainties.
Independently consult real suitable sources. An AI-generated citation or the tool agreeing with itself is not verification.
Use Lesson 1, “Be the fact detective”, with a book or other trusted reference.
Starting request: Test me.
Learning purpose: Prepare questions an adult can verify first.
I am an adult making a practice quiz about the difference between evaporation and condensation. Create three short questions of increasing difficulty. Put correct answers and short explanations in a separate section for me to check before showing the questions. Do not claim alignment with a particular exam board.
Choose a topic the adult can check.
Verify answers and ask the child to explain one response rather than just selecting an option.
Write three questions yourself from a page you have already read together.
Starting request: Rewrite this for me.
Learning purpose: Keep the rewrite with the child.
For the invented practice sentence below, suggest two questions a writer could ask to improve clarity. Do not rewrite it. Sentence: the thing happened later and it was good because they did it.
Use the invented sentence, not a child's identifiable work.
The child rewrites it and explains the choice. Follow school policy for any assessed work.
Ask the same two questions yourself: what happened, and why did it matter?
Starting request: Give me a game.
Learning purpose: Practise writing a brief with constraints.
I am an adult planning a ten-minute indoor activity for two children. Suggest three simple paper-and-pencil games that practise giving clear instructions. No accounts, personal data, paid materials or screens during the games. Explain the rules briefly so I can check them first.
Decide time, materials and accessibility needs.
The adult checks suitability; children explain which instructions worked and suggest an improvement.
Play Lesson 2, “Give clearer instructions”, with paper or bricks.
Dinner cards
Try one over dinner, in the car or on a walk. You don't need an AI tool. You don't need a perfect answer.
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Confident or correct?
If an AI sounds certain, does that make it right?
If an AI sounds certain, does that make it right?
Parent note: Confidence is not evidence.
Offline action: Choose one simple claim and check a suitable book.
Caption: Tonight's dinner-table question: If an AI sounds certain, does that make it right? A small conversation about AI, thinking and judgement. Try the follow-ups at https://middleprinciple.com/parents/cards/confident-or-correct #TheMiddlePrinciple #AILiteracy #Parenting
If AI finishes your homework, what have you learnt?
Parent note: Explore the difference between support and substitution.
Offline action: Explain a familiar method to someone at the table.
Caption: Tonight's dinner-table question: If AI finishes your homework, what have you learnt? A small conversation about AI, thinking and judgement. Try the follow-ups at https://middleprinciple.com/parents/cards/who-did-the-learning #TheMiddlePrinciple #AILiteracy #Parenting
Whose point of view might an AI answer leave out?
Parent note: Look for missing perspectives without assuming what a group thinks.
Offline action: Discuss the fictional playground from Lesson 3.
Caption: Tonight's dinner-table question: Whose point of view might an AI answer leave out? A small conversation about AI, thinking and judgement. Try the follow-ups at https://middleprinciple.com/parents/cards/who-is-missing #TheMiddlePrinciple #AILiteracy #Parenting
What would you never tell a chatbot?
Parent note: Personal information and other people's privacy deserve care.
Offline action: Invent a fictional example instead of using a real detail.
Caption: Tonight's dinner-table question: What would you never tell a chatbot? A small conversation about AI, thinking and judgement. Try the follow-ups at https://middleprinciple.com/parents/cards/keep-it-private #TheMiddlePrinciple #AILiteracy #Parenting
Should an AI decide who gets picked for a team?
Parent note: Fairness depends on purpose, evidence and human accountability.
Offline action: Suggest a fair way to choose a pretend team.
Caption: Tonight's dinner-table question: Should an AI decide who gets picked for a team? A small conversation about AI, thinking and judgement. Try the follow-ups at https://middleprinciple.com/parents/cards/can-it-be-fair #TheMiddlePrinciple #AILiteracy #Parenting
When does help stop you learning?
Parent note: Support needs can differ; more help is not automatically wrong.
Offline action: Try a puzzle with one small clue.
Caption: Tonight's dinner-table question: When does help stop you learning? A small conversation about AI, thinking and judgement. Try the follow-ups at https://middleprinciple.com/parents/cards/helpful-or-too-helpful #TheMiddlePrinciple #AILiteracy #Parenting
If a picture looks real, how could you check where it came from?
Parent note: Provenance and context are more reliable than guessing from visual glitches.
Offline action: Discuss where you would look before sharing.
Caption: Tonight's dinner-table question: If a picture looks real, how could you check where it came from? A small conversation about AI, thinking and judgement. Try the follow-ups at https://middleprinciple.com/parents/cards/seeing-is-believing #TheMiddlePrinciple #AILiteracy #Parenting
If AI gives you an idea, what makes the finished work yours?
Parent note: Explore contribution, ownership and school expectations.
Offline action: Invent two different endings to the same story starter.
Caption: Tonight's dinner-table question: If AI gives you an idea, what makes the finished work yours? A small conversation about AI, thinking and judgement. Try the follow-ups at https://middleprinciple.com/parents/cards/make-it-yours #TheMiddlePrinciple #AILiteracy #Parenting
What would make you disagree with an AI answer?
Parent note: Encourage reasoned disagreement and willingness to change your mind.
Offline action: Challenge one fictional claim respectfully.
Caption: Tonight's dinner-table question: What would make you disagree with an AI answer? A small conversation about AI, thinking and judgement. Try the follow-ups at https://middleprinciple.com/parents/cards/would-you-disagree #TheMiddlePrinciple #AILiteracy #Parenting
Just because AI can do something, should we use it?
Parent note: Deliberately choosing not to use a tool is also a judgement.
Offline action: Name one activity your family wants to keep human.
Caption: Tonight's dinner-table question: Just because AI can do something, should we use it? A small conversation about AI, thinking and judgement. Try the follow-ups at https://middleprinciple.com/parents/cards/should-we-use-ai #TheMiddlePrinciple #AILiteracy #Parenting
If two chatbots agree, is that enough evidence?
Parent note: Agreement is not the same as independent verification.
Offline action: Choose a reference you would trust for a familiar topic.
Caption: Tonight's dinner-table question: If two chatbots agree, is that enough evidence? A small conversation about AI, thinking and judgement. Try the follow-ups at https://middleprinciple.com/parents/cards/one-more-check #TheMiddlePrinciple #AILiteracy #Parenting
Could you explain what you learnt after closing the screen?
Parent note: Look for understanding through explanation, demonstration or drawing.
Offline action: Teach someone one thing you know.
Caption: Tonight's dinner-table question: Could you explain what you learnt after closing the screen? A small conversation about AI, thinking and judgement. Try the follow-ups at https://middleprinciple.com/parents/cards/explain-it-without-it #TheMiddlePrinciple #AILiteracy #Parenting
Family agreement
Use this as a conversation starter, not a legal agreement or a scored assessment. Tick the points you want to keep talking about.
Questions
No technical expertise is required. Start with the supplied offline conversation and learn alongside your child. An adult should review any tool output before using it in an activity.
No. These activities can use printed examples and ordinary conversation. Adult preparation is distinct from giving a child access. Check each tool's current terms, minimum age, parental permission conditions and intended audience. Do not use an adult account to bypass restrictions or share adult credentials with a child.
Yes. All six lessons have offline routes, and the dinner cards require no tool at all.
It depends on the task and the school's rules. Follow those rules, keep the learning with the child and acknowledge assistance where required. There is no honest shortcut that hides help from a teacher.
Adjust the task, time, reading level and response format. Spoken explanations, drawings, a parent's reading support and practical demonstrations can all reveal understanding. Working without support is not the same as learning successfully.
Stop using that output, let the child speak to a trusted adult, and use the provider's reporting controls or relevant school support where appropriate. Do not repeat the material in the activity.
No. They are small family activities that complement teaching and school expectations. The age bands are starting points, not a formal curriculum or validated assessment.
It keeps purpose and judgement with people: Human Direction → AI Acceleration → Human Judgement. The practical question is whether the child can explain what they learnt and why they made a choice.
Further reading: Generative artificial intelligence (AI) in education — Department for Education guidance for England. It informs these resources' emphasis on supervision, checking and appropriate use. It is not a new legal requirement for households, and provider terms vary.
You don't need to have every answer. Help your child practise asking, checking and deciding.
Educators looking for staff CPD or classroom resources can start on the Education page, including the school CPD pilot.
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